Category: Frank’s history (Page 4 of 9)

Re: hey, ruth! II

(Ruth Spivak wrote:)

Thank you, Frank for going, for representing us, and for sending me the Fallow’s article.

We, who had him as a teacher, knew his value. I cherish his life and his positive changes to mine.

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at least I tried!

In Freedom,
Frank Moore

Re: hey, ruth!

Frank,

Thanks for keeping in touch. Yes, I keep seeing him as well. Chuck and I watched a movie about Iraq (documentary, I don’t remember the name) and there was Jim Fallows.

I will try to find the Colbert report you mentioned.

I wrote an email, but I don’t think they would have included that. Mr. Haight was a great influence on my life. One huge part of that was getting to know you and to learn to see the real you inside.

Have a wonderful year.

Ruth

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ah, Ruth! I am just recovering from last Sunday’s memorial for Mr. and Mrs. Haight. I don’t think his sons really saw him or his real effect. they had copies of Jim Fallows’ write-up in THE ATLANTIC about Mr. Haight out on the table. But they were clearly puzzled by why he wrote it… And by why they got so much response from former students, etc. Not that they didn’t love him. Clearly they did [although the older son didn’t attend without an explanation]. But it was obvious that they saw him as a quirky, lovable character… Almost like Columbo… Taking forever to get to the point, always forcing them to do street theater for losing causes… A mild mannered even tempered guy until he was pushed too far, and then watch out! Obviously they had experienced that point.

Most of the Speakers were friends of Mrs. Haight who saw Mr. Haight as fun to be around, but…

Unfortunately one of the sons wanted to read my piece for me [Linda usually reads my stuff]. What could I do? Well, he absolutely murdered it! So it made no sense at all!

there was one Redlands student who told a story about when Mr. Haight gave her a subject to debate five minutes before class. She didn’t know anything about the subject, but she was getting the class convinced of the bullshit. So Mr. Haight had to stop her. He told her obviously she has an ability to convince people. So it was her responsibility to make sure what she was saying was right! [And he had trouble getting to the point… I don’t think so!] She lived her whole life on that!

But that was totally undervalued there. It was rough being there!

http://jamesfallows.theatlantic.com/archives/2009/12/raymond_haight.php

Raymondthat Jr. (updated)

15 Dec 2009 02:07 pm
In the public schools of Redlands, California, I had a number of truly outstanding teachers. I think they would have been seen as such in any setting, but of course I can’t compare. Mathilda Phillips, in English; Jack Nagasaki, in chemistry; William Cunningham, in physics; Gertrude Baccus, in speech and debate — and that’s just a few from high school. (Update: How could I have forgotten Lois Gregory, in French?) This was back during what seems in retrospect California’s golden age, the time of big ideas, big ambitions, big possibilities, and of course big budgets, for the state’s schools, parks, universities, and freeways. Now….

One of the most memorable was Raymond Haight, the history and social-studies teacher who was really my first contact with the world of politics and public affairs. I was sitting in his 10th-grade world history class when news came of John F. Kennedy’s assassination; he talked about what that would mean, in ways that stood up very well over the years — including what might become of the early commitments Kennedy had made in Laos and Vietnam. I learned long afterwards that “Mr. Haight” — in his early 40s then — represented a strain of California culture that was unusual in our very conservative small town in California’s southern “Inland Empire.” During the 1964 election, he raised questions about the locally-popular “Proposition 14,” designed to overturn a “Fair Housing” act and, in effect, legalize racial discrimination in real estate sales and rentals. (Prop 14 passed but was then declared unconstitutional by the California supreme court. Too bad the disastrous Prop 13 never met the same fate.) Barry Goldwater was also locally very popular, and Mr. Haight had a few of us read Goldwater’s Conscience of a Conservative analytically (rather than as a holy text) and debate its strengths and weaknesses. The point is not that he was more liberal than the surrounding community, though that was so; rather, that he urged teenagers to think their way toward independent conclusions.

Most students at the high school had at best one generation of college attendance behind them. (Ie, many but not most of my classmates had a parent who had gone to college. Very few had college-grad grandparents.) Raymond Haight’s great-grandfather, Henry Haight, had gone to Yale before the Civil War and became one of California’s first governors. He signed the act creating the University of California and helped establish Golden Gate Park; the Haight district of San Francisco is named for their family. Soon after I went away to college, Mr. Haight and his family moved back to central and then northern California. He launched a quixotic campaign for governor in 1970, running as an anti-Vietnam War candidate. He came in well down the list for the Democratic nomination; the nominee, Jesse Unruh, went on to lose big to Ronald Reagan, running for reelection.

Because he’d moved away, I didn’t see him on my visits to my home town, but I have often reflected on how much difference he made in my life. I learned just recently that he and his wife, the writer Mary Ellen Jordan Haight, had died this fall, within weeks of each other, at 88 and 82 respectively. I mention them to honor their memory, achievements, and influence; as testimony to what the public schools meant at that time; and as a counterpoint to the news this week of another round of teacher layoffs in my hometown’s school system, as a result of California’s budget disaster. His life made a difference. The picture below is from the high school yearbook, the Makio, when he was chosen “Teacher of the Year” in his late 30s, via the Redlands Daily Facts obit.

In Freedom,
Frank Moore

my piece about mr. haight

I was in the orthopedic handicapped class [to use the language they used back then] when they moved us high school aged disabled students from an elementary school campus to Redlands High School campus so that we could take regular classes. This was in 1964. So for two years I had Mr. Haight as my teacher. I have always been that lucky!

I probably had a history class with him. But what is stuck in my mind is his World Cultures class. We sat in a circle so we all could see one another, talk directly to one another on an equal basis … not like in the regular row seating. We did learn about the World Cultures, and therefore diversity. But there was much more going on in the class. Mr. Haight got us to listen to one another, to reveal what we really felt and thought … not in a debating environment where you had to defend yourself … but in an environment of exploring. So the shy kids had the same access as the whiz kids. Mr. Haight created this environment with a warm chuckling humor and high expectations. I probably ripped off a lot of his style. I hope I did!

I wasn’t one of the shy kids. I was an opinionated big mouth. But I communicated by a head pointer and letter board. [I also typed with the pointer.] I only invented the head pointer a few months before I entered the class. But because of the environment, I could fully engage in the discussions.

When Ruth, John and I with a couple of other weird kids started a political club, Mr. Haight was our adviser. And when we wanted to print our own underground paper, he printed it on the school’s mimeograph machine. He talked in my defense when my radical political opinions in my column in the school paper got me in to hot water. Back then the disabled weren’t supposed to be radical or even political, just religious! But Mr. Haight didn’t see me as a disabled student, but as a passionate kid with something to contribute.

Really it was the two years that what was the Fifties transformed into what was the Sixties. And I think Mr. Haight did a lot of that transforming! This is obvious within his classroom. But I remember my mother and I going to his house for a study group about Vietnam. I also remember us and him on the picket line about the Vietnam War in Redlands! This was before it was fashionable anywhere … but in Redlands of all places!

Now fast forward to the early eighties … I ran into him in San Francisco. He was tickled at how my life had turned out, how I was a director, how I had relationships, etc. For awhile he was thinking of “investing” in my first film. But in the end he decided to use his money to take a bike tour around Europe with his wife. This made perfect sense to me. I learned how to make love with life from Mr. Haight!

Frank Moore
1/7/2010

hey, ruth!

I see that Jim Fallows was on THE COLBERT REPORT tonight. I keep getting those bleed throughs where our everyday life bleeds on to the television. Like we were watching a Hollywood movie [JULIE AND JULIA], and one of the main actors started looking very familiar. Turned out he came to our house when his brother’s band played on my show! I even got him to jam with us! And now we are watching another film that he popped up in.

I just wrote a piece about Mr. Haight that one of his sons may read at Sunday’s memorial.

In Freedom,
Frank Moore

cover resend

well, to set these photos up… It was the mid- seventies. I had a group of thirty people, formed during my relationship counselling years. With them I did plays, performances, Parades, free concerts, etc. and we would get dressed in brightly colored outrageous sexy costumes that we made and went en mass to clubs to see our favorite bands… LEILA AND THE SNAKES, THE TUBES, and COUNTRY PORN. [I stole a lot from these bands for THE OUTRAGEOUS BEAUTY REVUE.] We danced en mass, actually becoming a part of the shows. The press started including us in stories about the bands, including photos of us. This was especially true of the photographer Dave Patrick, who went on to photograph THE O. B. R., selling the photos all over the world, both in mainstream Publications and sex mags! We always joked that Dave was the only one who made any money on THE O. B. R.!

so a couple of months ago, i tracked /googled down the lead Singer of COUNTRY PORN, Chinga Chavin. It took me three nights to do it because he is now a hot shit real estate advertising boss in N.Y.C. but I always get my man! anyway, COUNTRY PORN is still one of my favorite bands, and their [his] first album was a masterpiece… Which can be a fucking curse! During my research I found Chinga came out a few years ago with a live album made up with cuts from the shows of the seventies! Hey Chinga, your boy slave still hasn’t sent me a copy! Never fear! I got a copy from Germany’s Bear Family . It’s the equal to the first album! I probably was at most of the shows…. But I don’t hear me singing with you! [Btw, I love your cover of RUNNING BEAR!]

but we here were looking at the liner photos [see below]. First they obviously are Dave’s photos… As I remember it, he was dating one of the twins of your Muffettes at the time. But as we looked closer at the photos, we saw we are in most of them. Even me harvesting a bare tit! It’s good to be a part of history!

In Freedom,
Frank Moore

Re: 48 hours to support CSC for 2009 tax deduction & our BIG LOVE!

Hi Frank – looking forward seeing you on the 14th – I went to a temple dance tonight and we all got naked …it was quiet fun — have you heard of csc – i could imagine you doing a performance at one of their events….
I also saw you mentioning Shelley cook in an e-mail (calling her a snob)-I met her couple of years ago and her name appeared in my dream last night – I thought of reconnecting with her because of it. Sending you many bleassings and einen guten rutsch ins neue jahr….(a good slide into the new year) Nicki

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MMMMM… We have you coming on TUESDAY THE TWELFTH. Is that right?

Yes, I know about CSC. Annie Sprinkle just recommended it to me for a possible performance space. And Nellie Wilson, who is a sexuality teacher connected to CSC and has been to quite a few of the Temescal performances, is working on getting me a performance there.

Ah, Shelley! A good performer. But frankly a bitch! I have had her in my casts going back to the early eighties when I started touring. I used her in my first Los Angeles performances. Then took her to N.Y.C. when I was doing a big production. In Los Angeles she was a deva, but she came through with a lot of work. But in N.Y.C., she was a snob! I had Annie Sprinkle [and something like twenty other people who I had not even met before] in my cast. Annie was still in the porn world. My performance was her first adventure into the performance art world. Annie was great, warm, etc. I told her she would be great artist. She did not believe me [they never do!]. But something was rotten at the rehearsals. It turned out that Shelley thought she was too good to even talk to a porn actress. I had to do things to save the five hour performance. A year later Annie was the talk of the Art world!

In Freedom,
Frank Moore

Fw: Sexy Mayhem at The Exotic Erotic Ball!

well, here is a little known bit of trivia. They got the idea for THE EXOTIC EROTIC BALL from our OUTRAGEOUS BEAUTY REVUE. They actually came to me to see if I wanted to do it with them. But I declined. I was never into capitalism! Darn!

In Freedom,
Frank Moore

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Interesting… Makes sense.. Not that they actually made money on the event. On the contrary, they lost a bundle…
Peace on Earth ~ Pleasure for All

xo Suzy

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ain’t it how it always goes!?

In Freedom,
Frank Moore

Sexy Mayhem at The Exotic Erotic Ball!

Go Behind The Scenes @
“The World’s #1 Wildest & Sexiest Party”
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http://bloggamy.com/2009/12/24/sexy-mayhem-exotic-erotic-ball/
with Dr. Suzy, Sparkle, Natasha, Asia, Ms. Genevieve & The Bonobo Gang

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well, here is a little known bit of trivia. They got the idea for THE EXOTIC EROTIC BALL from our OUTRAGEOUS BEAUTY REVUE. They actually came to me to see if I wanted to do it with them. But I declined. I was never into capitalism! Darn!

In Freedom,
Frank Moore

Re: SEXECOLOGY! The LOVE ART LAB at FEMINA POTENS in SF. Exhibit+Events (Annie II)

Frank, Funny the things you remember and I don’t, perhaps on purpose.
Too bad the Center for sex and culture has so many stairs. that would be a great place for you to perform.

Bummer no local gigs now, but i’m sure you will be getting some soon. how do you manage to keep on doing it all?!

Annie

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oh, you know what they say about a bad penny! She turns up every ten years or so.

I did THE POW POW PERFORMANCE FESTIVAL in San Francisco a couple of months ago. And i have the monthly performance series at the Temescal art center in Oakland [the dates are below in my first email]. We are heading into the second year of that series. And don’t get me started on my cable show, etc, etc. but I would love to do something at the Center for sex and culture! The sex therapist Nellie Wilson, who has been a guest on my cable show and also has come to quite a few of the Temescal performances, is Connected to the Center for sex and culture. can you put in a good word for me?

how do I keep doing it all? Do I have a choice? Things open new possibilities for everybody. So it’s a part of the job to take opportunities that come to one. I rarely go after things. But when they come to me, I follow them. I thought things are supposed to slow down when you get old. But it’s the opposite. Tomorrow tonight I am doing a third private performance with a woman who came to a Temescal performance. Last week I was on KPFA doing a three hour Christmas /call-in show. then I had a great guitarist on my Sunday cable show who then came to the Friday performance to jam.

I don’t know how each piece goes together. I just stay here with Linda, Mikee, Jen, Alexi, Corey, and Erika. Everything else falls around that.

In Freedom,
Frank Moore

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