Hey Frank, wow, you are a super busy guy! Haha, your description reminds me of my own experience coming back from near-death of septic shock in ’06, how the doctors in every specialty, nurses and various and sundry physical therapists were lined up to poke me and make me do delightfully painful things. Well, it sounds like your peeps are doing their job and you are doing your job of getting better and better every day. I understand its time-consuming, but thanks for remembering my caller who complained that his wheelchair held him back from finding love. You are a shining example of how to turn all kinds of crazy adversity into love, love and more love… So… Enjoy that drink 🙂
Love
Suzy
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Ah, Suzy! My email backlog is down to 180!
People don’t like to hear their problems /issues aren’t special /unique! Crips are more obvious. Crips don’t like me telling them that why they can’t get a girl /guy ain’t because they are crips [which they were told], but most of the time because they don’t come to the relationship as an equal Player, upholding their part of the relationship. I always go out to people, communicating I want to play with them. Like most crips’ communication boards face the crip. My board faces the other person, making it easier for the other to read. I’m actively available. I always find an in to a person. I enjoy life /people. That attracts people. I’m willing to get hurt and keep risking. Getting hurt is part of the process of getting what you want. Of course there are assholes and bigots out there [but most people aren’t assholes or bigots]. But when they reveal themselves, I just move on, thankful for saving time /energy. Hey, I don’t want to fuck them!
I actively meet the other’s wants /needs. I expect the other to do the same… And I let the other meet my wants /needs [it took years for me to figure they want /need this]. I don’t go into a relationship with agendas, goals or pictures.
Well, this is how to get and keep relationships!
In Freedom,
Frank Moore
